STOP THE ASSAULT
ON PARENTING

The First Minister plans to turn good parents into criminals

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Cardiff  |  Wednesday 20 June 2018

8pm – 9pm
Park Suite, Park Plaza, Greyfriars Rd, Cardiff, CF10 3AL

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Sally Gobbett, Parent activist

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…PEOPLE HAVE SIGNED THE PETITION SO FAR

“I oppose the Welsh Government’s plan to criminalise parents who smack their children.”

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WHY THE LAW NEEDS TO REMAIN UNCHANGED…

Good parents will be turned into criminals.

Police and social workers will be flooded with trivial cases leaving them struggling to stop genuine child abuse.

Parents should decide whether to smack their children, not the government.

The current law already protects children from abuse. It needs to be enforced, not changed.

Should parental smacking of children be a criminal offence?

76%say NO
Source: ComRes, 13-25 January 2017

The online poll was conducted by ComRes which interviewed 1019 Welsh adults between 13 and 25 January 2017. Data were weighted to be demographically representative.

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“Yeah, but…

Answers to common arguments in favour of changing the law to criminalise parents

"GOOD PARENTS ARE NOT AT RISK FROM A CHANGE IN THE LAW"

It has been argued that ‘trivial’ smacks would not be prosecuted if the law is changed. But why create a criminal offence if it is never going to be enforced? The reality is that once the defence of ‘reasonable chastisement’ is removed any chastisement, however minor, will break the law and risk prosecution. It will inevitably catch ordinary parents, labelling them child abusers.

"SMACKING IS A FORM OF CHILD ABUSE"

The current law already protects children from abuse. Reasonable chastisement is not to ‘attack’, to ‘beat’ or to ‘abuse’. Reasonable chastisement is not harmful or degrading. It is one form of loving discipline.

"CHILDREN SHOULD HAVE THE SAME PROTECTION AS ADULTS"

Because children are not adults the law treats children differently in many different ways in order to protect them. Children are not allowed to drive, marry or own a firearms licence. Nobody claims this is ‘unfair’ or ‘unequal’ and it would be just as inappropriate to apply this argument to smacking. Children may also be confined to their bedrooms, required to eat their vegetables or have to go to bed at a particular time - ‘restrictions’ which would not be applied to adults.

"SMACKING TEACHES CHILDREN TO USE VIOLENCE"

Some 85% of Welsh adults were smacked as children. They are law-abiding citizens. Reasonable chastisement helps to train children to know how to behave, to set clear boundaries and to equip them for adult life. It has its basis in the unique relationship between parents and their children. Reasonable chastisement is a part of loving parenting.

"SMACKING IS A GREY AREA IN THE LAW - IT'S SAFER TO JUST BAN IT"

The present law is clear that ‘reasonable chastisement’ is acceptable and it is working. Banning smacking would only divert resources away from protecting abused children. The Welsh Government should concentrate on improving awareness of the current law, rather than seeking to abolish it.

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What is being proposed?

Currently parents in Wales are allowed to ‘reasonably chastise’ their children. The First Minister has committed to outlaw this. He intends to do this by removing the defence of ‘reasonable chastisement’.

What is ‘reasonable chastisement’?

The ‘reasonable chastisement' defence prevents parents from being criminalised for smacking their children.

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